Famous Nigerian actress Kate Henshaw recently parted with her British Husband (Roderick James Nuttal) after 12 years of marriage. The separation was said to be mutual, non-contentious and amicable between this two.
Here is what Kate said to Encomium: “all I can say is that everything that has a beginning, must have an end. As you can see, i am okay. there’s no rancour, no problem.”


kate you are someone i admire so much,i as your fan love you and really admire you,your type of marriage was one that i pray to GOD to give me,i saw you and your husband some years back in park and shop on the island i was so happy for you.how come the divorce?ahhahahh
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kelvin Reply:
November 17th, 2011 at 6:40 am
kate dont mind dat oyibo your my drim of girl i want 2 be wit com and be my wife joo
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Atobajaye Reply:
November 18th, 2011 at 8:11 am
Kelvin,She will definitely leave you the same way she leaves her first husband,you are selfish.
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craig placid Reply:
November 17th, 2011 at 7:54 am
how do u feel now u re out of ur marriage bassed on de reason dat it waz a mutual agreement? could marriage be a contract 2 u?
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WOLE Reply:
November 18th, 2011 at 6:43 pm
KATE ABI THE GUY THING NOR SWEET YOU AGAIN. WELL I BEG JUST COOL DOWN AND LOOK FOR A BLACK BROTHER OOO. DONT LOOK FOR THE ONE WEY IM THING DEY FALL EVERY SECOND OO
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craig placid Reply:
November 17th, 2011 at 8:11 am
how do u feel now u re out of ur marriage bassed on de reason dat it waz a mutual agreement? could marriage be a contract 2 u?4get any bodi who come 2 u with squeela’s tongue 4 now and look unto God
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bee Reply:
November 17th, 2011 at 10:20 pm
my dear Kate you do have my respect but you must work this out.there can not be public victory without a private victory. you worked so hard to be come a star, that’s what you are please work on the only thing that truly make you. your marriage your song your service to God.
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Ken Hassan Reply:
November 17th, 2011 at 11:08 pm
Kate u be mumu bec of all the stupid thing that u want to do with another men or Guy God will punished u, when u know that you are not ready to mari why do u attend to the Guy.. No matter any possition you may be now but remeber that you need to lay God foundation down for your son and duagter because what you did is very bad.
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funmi Reply:
November 18th, 2011 at 8:49 am
ken hassan do you that u are a real senseless guy very stupid you have the gush to say something you don’t even understand. mumu wait and see the way your own life will handle and how you will control it.idiot aproko. just dey open mouth like gorila. do you think it’s easy get married not 2 talk of the challenges on the way. Ageless boy.
kate dont mind them let them say what they like just make sure you move on well. God will see you through. Nice don sing am ohun to ba hun lenu lo fi enu soo.
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sira Reply:
November 18th, 2011 at 3:31 pm
Funmi u are very stupid to have encourage divorce are u married or ur also a divorced? d covenant dey had is 4 beta 4 wost, if u are dat sensible what exactly do u have 4 her children? married is the sweetest thing on earth.
Kate go back 2 ur family if not for anything, but for the sake of ur children. there is no beta comfort for children than the comfort of a mother. except u want ur children to suffer in the hand of another woman.
COURAGE Reply:
November 19th, 2011 at 11:28 am
life is all about endurance and to be faithful at least, Kate is somebody i loved so much cos of the way she act and i had believed that this kind of mess can not come from her. but now i am highly disappointed cos she could not handle her husband and prove to her hubby that african woman can not be compared with white woman in terms of culture, spirituality,caterring for children and making sure the husband has her back up @ all time, which dignify an african woman. kate disappointed me with the statement “all I can say is that everything that has a beginning, must have an end”. she has forgotten that those words are not applicable interms marriage arrangement. Please i would have loved it so much if u can make it up with ur husband. Jehovah loves u as u do that.
dave Reply:
December 3rd, 2011 at 8:22 pm
did days woman don’t married because they need the love.i know all she(kate)is money.she left Sammy okposo all for the sake of marring a white man because of money.she a good husband again.
Steve Reply:
November 19th, 2011 at 12:08 pm
@Hassan is very wrong to judge the case in which u don’t know the genesis, thus Funmi is right about her reply to u. my advise to kate is to go back to her husband,though there may be challenges but as it has not been disclosed, my advice to her is to go back to her home for the sake of her children
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cynthia israel Reply:
January 16th, 2012 at 4:33 pm
Pls I advise U̶̲̥̅̊ 2 go back 4 d sake of Ūя̲̅ children
swargs Reply:
November 18th, 2011 at 8:58 am
all this our female idols self there own is too much dthey are married and yet their eye still dey outside y wont dey divorce acting nude roles on tv for money ashawo ni gbogbo won we still have perfect examples like chioma chukwuka stephanie okereke and others mercy johnson ur own na next kate u better tell us wetin u do and stop pretending na God go save all our female stars una won copy the foreign ones una go grow old
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Zsavo Reply:
November 18th, 2011 at 1:08 pm
Kate!!! what a shame to hear you say ” Everything that has a beginning, must have an end” No not in marriage that won`t work.
You are mixing up with the wrong people (friends). They will lead you to your destruction if you do not watch it. Take away PRIDE and reconcile with your hubby. A word is enough for the WISE
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tosin Reply:
November 18th, 2011 at 5:11 pm
what do u expect from all dis actors and actresses? even when they are married they still believe dat they are acting.to me they are no role model.
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kate is a nice actress lovd by all i know from genesis that it must end the way.
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Kate ur my model, both u & Stella Damasus, the two nollywood actresses i’v ever loved. how come now???????????
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why must all actress divorce their husband after some years, its a bad habit, i want you all to know that “what goes up must surely come down”, do not think you are wise, but you must reap what you sow, remember you have a child. Think about the future!!!
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Kate, u are someone i admire so much for ur acting prowess and one of my role model in the acting industry. I was counting u as one of the very few career women who can hold down a job like acting and still maintain a family, how come the divorce? Like u said “Marriage has a beginning but it does not have an end except “till death do u part”
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pls make up with ur husband i beg u,u dnt kn wat GOD has done 4 u now,ontill u losse it,
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kate pls pray n pray for GOD TO LEAD U ON THE RIGHT PATH. U are loved by the whole of my family. WE WANT THE BEST FOR U.
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life is nt wat u think just think about ur child 15years is nt a joke,
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pls kate pls run back to u husband, please my sister there nothing out side, do u remember sam that treating u fool.
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Ngozi Reply:
November 16th, 2011 at 10:43 pm
Come on Kate. You are someone I admire so much. I wonder what the differences are that you could not settle with your spouse, I really wish there’s a way you two can get back together. anyway, I wish you the best.
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Ejiro okotie. Reply:
November 17th, 2011 at 5:39 am
Please help me tell Kate; that marriage is a creative institution built on 6 pillars , sincerity and trust,mutual respect and understanding, constructive jealousy and lastly, care.tell Kate also that, she will gain more by finding a big sea to fish than JUMP from one pound to the other.intensity defeats ex tensity every time.tell Kate “all that twinkles is not a star” Kate; i beg u “nor fall our hands” go back to your husband and be wise.
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Gideon Reply:
November 18th, 2011 at 7:05 am
Absolutely true
moments Reply:
November 18th, 2011 at 9:19 am
u got it all
ushie agah Reply:
November 20th, 2011 at 10:13 am
@ okokie u have said it all.Kate love know no bandry, u should remember a bird @ hand worth thousand in the bush. we are filling just concern because we love you and we are in thesame institute too (marriage).
Iamthebesthere Reply:
November 16th, 2011 at 11:55 pm
That is the fart
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eugene winifred Reply:
November 18th, 2011 at 11:56 am
Kate why must u leave ur home, wel it means dat u only built a house and not a home, wel my advise you is dat please just try and go back to ur husband no matter what happens becos it is very bad.A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage pls it is against God will pls kate u are someone i respect alot pls make up with ur husband the Lord God would see u through
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Kate.. I admired u so much, especially ur program on peak family health on Raypower FM. please for the sake of ur kids, for d sake of other Nigerian youths who admire u as a role model, please my wife and I see u as one of the few decent actresses. please reconcile with ure husband. Marriage dont av an end till death. My wife and I disagree to agree. Thanks
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Kate! kate! pls make up wit your husband.love you so much.
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Oh! kate Pls make up wit him.I luv u.
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kate i cherish u and i wil advice u not 2 do it. pls, if my mum hear about this she will b sad, bring back d smile i mean it kate. pls, makeup with him, we want u back, nobody s perfect, d next man might b worse plssssssssssssss.
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Felix Bello Reply:
November 16th, 2011 at 10:56 am
People should please ask these so calld ‘public figure’ what they are realy figuring out to the public,good habit or bad habit? Please remind them also that they are springs of posterity and what is recorded of them today will be used to evaluate them tomorrow if not by man, certainly by God.
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It is with deep sorrow i learnt of the brake up of your marriag. I wish you the best in your future endevers hope you’ll find a sole mate one day god bless. p.s your a very talented artist
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Kate, don’t worry..if is ur husband he will surely come back to you..the lord is with u
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When two people have agreed to part ways, you don’t force it to work.Thank goodness you have a baby to show for it and a thriving career as well.Pls move on and enjoy life bcos it’s too short.
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kay Reply:
November 17th, 2011 at 6:59 am
Men u sound dull.and poor in heart.
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Wait abeg, wot’s all the fuss for? If u read the story well, it says the decision was mutual, so why are u all making so much noise over the matter? Why not ask what happened? Kate is an enlightened woman who has all she wants to be happy, and if she says she is ready to be on her own then let her. No one should judge the lady joor! Kate i still love you all the same.
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lawrence Reply:
November 16th, 2011 at 4:22 pm
bird of same feather.
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MeAgain Reply:
November 16th, 2011 at 11:29 pm
Of course you would say dat…RETARD
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MeAgain Reply:
November 16th, 2011 at 11:33 pm
And just so we’re clear I was talking to the retardeen up here. Yes Lawrence, you. Mumu.
Austine Reply:
November 17th, 2011 at 1:32 am
Wat ur own prob? I tink she said her mind. Kate is nt a kid, she knows wat she wants. U don’t suffer in a marriage becos ur afraid of wat d public would say if u eventually breakup. Pls guys give dis lady a break. Anyway Kate, am a young and energetic young man willing to share some part of my time wit u.
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chioma Reply:
November 18th, 2011 at 8:55 am
flockiiiiiiiiiing alike
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lucy Reply:
November 17th, 2011 at 11:57 am
U are one of the few here that has been thoughtful enuf to say the right thing. Like the saying goes “he who wears the shoes knows where it hurts most”. White ppl are very impatient and are always searching for a difference that isnt in existence in this world. And l hear many ppl here saying go back,go back when they dont even know what happened or what Kate has been putting up with all these years.
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kate…..have u 4gotten its 4 better n 4 worse…u njoyed 4 better 4 twelve good years, now a little 4 worse shud not make u shout divorce…..be wise
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My dear Kate, you can’t imagine how much you are loved and respected by so many fans, do to your responsible disposition.You are one of the best. I know that marriage has it’s trials but endurerance is the key to its success.Pls. if possible mend the fence with your husband.Forgive him and together face the challenges of life, i know that with God, you will overcome.
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Amal Reply:
November 16th, 2011 at 6:35 pm
Kate plz go back 2 him in order 4 ur children 2 emulate 4rm deir fmly bground.
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bee Reply:
November 17th, 2011 at 10:08 pm
my dear Kate you had my respect though you still do, but know this if this marriage collapse it only shows that you failed in you private life hence your public can not give you peace . Everything in life need working out work this one out like ur carrier, fame and life in chrit
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Kate Henshaw Nuttal,
Greeting to you,if i must say the truth “I ADMIRE YOU SO MUCH” but i guess i am just disappointed and as human we must expect the unexpectable in life and i think from you,i have receive yours.
No matter all odd i am still trying to create a niche that i created for you.Bid you farewellness in settling your marital scores with your Husband, Mr.Roderick James Nuttal.
Yours Fan,
Sir Peddy.
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Aunty K, what happened? I am saddened by this news. Pls reconcile with your hubby.
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i know i like u so much,i dont know weda d story i heard about u and stella damscus is true or not but all i want u 2 know is dat,u should not disappoint ds dat r looking up 2 u.u have no reason 2 divorce ur husband cos marriage is for beta and for worst.God Himself hates divorce.
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i agree wit u, u jst poured out my heart. last week, i was bragging in front of my colleagus dat she was unique of all those celebrities divorced. now dey are laughing @ me inda office. ooohhh kate wat hav u done 2me. i took u as my role model.
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Kate, people have spoken. Remember the voice of Man is the voice of God.No marriage that will not go thru. temptations or trials, but we have to allow the AUTHOR of marriage handle it. We love you & respect you so much. Please find a way of reconciling with your husband.God bless you.
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there are no models. all we have are egocentric personalities admired by egocentric people.
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Pls, sister kate reconcile with ur husband, bcos I want the best 4 u.
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na wa ohhhh,am jus gona tell u 2 go wiv ur mind regardless of wot people say,do wot u fink is ryt
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Kate henshaw is really a role model,i can’t believe this can happen.Only God knows the reason for this.
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u know, its not really surprising dat u did this Kate. u even tried staying up to 12 years, some of ur colleagues left earlier dan dat but then its a BIG disappointment. it looks as if divorce is in vogue amongst the celebrities but not to worry we will all stand b4 d jugdement seat of God answering our individuals questions on how we lived the lives freely given to us. reconsider ur ways and turn back to the right path. it is well with u. amen
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at Cyril, u made a lot of sense. The scripture is there for proof of this whole marriage thing that God is against divorce. The only school you can’t graduate from is “MARRIAGE” but its a pitty for many who embrace it just as Kate. May GOD help us
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Sad news you might call it, but have you find time to think or ask of the cause? anyway,it is not advisable, always try to imbibe the culture of roundtable in conflict resolution. Take care.
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plz my dear make up with cos of ur kidds plz
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kate i wouldn’t want u 2 do dat,cos you’re one of d kind actress i admire most.i would want u 2 leave everything in Gods hand.please am begging go back 2 ur husbands house 4 d sake of love and ur children.remember hw u all started d love affair.
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I just want to say, you,ve been my role, remember you came to tropicana in uyo. I am so sad! I wish i can help. Pls try and make up with your husband.remain blessed for ever. Amen
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ijeoma Reply:
November 16th, 2011 at 4:41 pm
kate,i luv u so much bcos of ur decent roles in the movies u feature and also 4 ur stature bt wat i dnt kw is y u shld follow the trend of public figures not staying long in marriage.
I dnt kw wat ur reasons 4 living ur marriage bt i kw your reasons are nt enof bt u ve taken ur decision.i wish u luck
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pls. just let her be.Kate, welcome 2 the club of single ladies & room service providers in Nollywood.i believe by d time u are through wit ur wayward adventure.U will come 2 appreciate the joy $ respect of been married.CHEERS.
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Why Kate? I’ve always put u and joke silver on the top of my list. Why ave u decided to take the wrong path under the film industry. Please, try to stand out, ur hubby stops u from not being a movie material.
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How can kate Henshaw says everything that has a beginning must have an end?thats not true at all.Its a lie from the pit of hell.Bone that thing, just say something is wrong and if it can be fixed let it be fixed.
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Kate i admired you so much and i was proud ur marriage was different from other actresses,how comes this story now
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pls listen to ur fans, u nid to go back plsssssssssssssssssssss. theres no beta man out there.
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Kate is one atress I loved so much…. she an exceptional woman…. especially in the issue of marrige…. whay the divorce now………… i feel sorry for her.
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anyway, nothing impossible since d seperation is mutual as it is said i bliv both wanted to path ways for a reason best known to each other.although u guys so inseperable but its better u think twise .kate u are so special wish u d best in life .ADEBOLA.1 of ur best fan.
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i like u.07040472552
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Kate i admired you so much.07040472552
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Kate, I and my family loved you,appreciate ur roles as a good mother therefore join every other people to beg dat you reconcile with ur husband. tanx
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Pls Kate, my love single parent will neva suit ur kids, U don’t need. U r very responsible to my liking and i hope the belle people did not bewitch you
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Big sist, u’re loved nd admired alwzs. Pls dont let d difference btw u nd ur hubby steal ur future Joy nd desires. Baba God Himself is not interested in anyone who want 2 put away. Wht God has joined 2gather no man can put asunder, dats wht d Bible says. Pls i beg u in d name of God almighty, consider ur kids becos no WOMAN CAN TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS D WAY U WILL DO. So pls consider them nd above all, remember dat marriage is 4 better 4 worse.
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what’s with this ” please go back and reconcile with ur hubby” thing.u making the guy feel like one “prince charming”. are you guys putting her happiness into perspective. the parting was mutual. why stay in a relationship while u’re unhappy. live is too short for all that. and if u ladies out there are keeping your marriage just because of what people are gonna say and not because of your happiness then i think u just gonna allow life pass u by. period!!
….. and who says there’s no better guy out there. . stop the bad press please!!
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Kate dear, this must be a trial time for you. Please ask for God guidance and direction but if I were your elder sister, I will ask you to keep your marriage. A marriage of 12 years is a worth holding on to.
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Sist, pls remember, marriage is TILL DEATH DO PART, 12 years is jst d begining nd pls not an ending. Pls prayerfully reconsider cos i love u.
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Kate why the mutual separation from your husband. I always admire you dat you can keep ur marriage despite that u are a star. please amend and settle with him. Love you kateeeee.
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kate i wish you joy and happiness in all your endeavours.
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my sister, no divorce is worth it but whatsoever be the reason, be steadfast and look unto GOD, it is well with u
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Kate ur one of my typical dream woman.. But is ur marriage thing is a contractual agreement/arrangement..???
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hi kate.sory about ur marriage.u’re lucky u av ur job.face it. most men ar afraid of their hubby’s success. 4 all U askng kate to go back…..U AV NOT WALK IN KATE SHOES. it cud av been anything frm verbal,emotional or physical. who feels it knows it. kate kip ur face to d sunshine, always. keep smiling. plssssssssss
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what ar u talkng about.Lesbianism has always been in 9ja.Girls av just become very BOLD.most ladies cant b bother wit living in a BOX.
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kate,kake,kate remember ur a model to all our ladies back home.what example are u showing.most of our ladies will now pick up from where u stopped.u left the best man u could ever have,except there was no true love in the first place.set ur priorities right.i admire u but this now a lesson to the white hunting nigerian ladies.
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Kate when u said the vows in church or wherever the wedding took place, u said for better, for worse, in riches and poor till death do u par, ur husband is not death pls in the name of God i ask u to go back to ur husband, whatever the issue is pls try and resolve e it between the two of u , becouse of your children.
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You are highly cherished and held in high esteem because you keep your marriage. Please don’t prove us wrong.
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we are africans lets stop trying to be like the westeners.celebrities are tools of change but they are not positive role models to most of our young girls.i will always ask the question y are they after white men? .y can’t they get married to a nigerian man.the other day mercy johnson got married as a second wife now this one is divorce.lots of young girls look up to these celebs .they have to try and live a good life
right now our country is in a bad shape and i believe our female celebrities can assist our nation one way or the other.
i hope to get better news rather than tis
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Well u heard it all Kate, I just hope u get to read these lovely comments. Nigerians really do love you, I DO TOO. So whatever your next step or decision, know that we love you & would stand by you; but more importantly, know that we would like to have you back with your hobby…but then only you can tell if you can really make that happen. Lots of love!
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my dear kate, pls if it advice givin to u by someone say no to that. and go back to ur husband before is too late. There are many ladies out dere lookin 4 who 2 spent the rest of there life with. Pls ur kids want u back.
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Kate is an adult so is her Ex-husband. They both know what is gud for dem. This does notin 2 my regards for you. Be strong and bring up your children the best way u cud. All the best.
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GOD didnt create somethings to have an END
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Kate what more can i say you have heard it all from your well wishing fans not all celebrities get this kind of good advise and much love so please no matter the grounds on which you guys decided to part ways abeg remember the vow before God and man and remember you said you can never marry an african man so why divorce the white you are married too?
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Wow!!! Y’all need to Sthu,Kate is a good role model and that’s cos she has maintained a high standard and yet kept her decency intact! Its called personality! Its got nothing at all to do with who she’s married to,she can’t possibly live her life for fans,shez mature enuf 2knw wats best for her and I bet her kids shld be her num1 priority..its her life,its her shoe and she alone knows where it hurts.besides it was a mutual understanding,leave stardom outta it
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Forgive me friends, but I will recommend that you all stop writing things if you don’t know what to say. For those of you who are not yet married, please reserve your comments until you get married and stay longer than she did in her marriage.
Kate, whatever you believe is best for you please do. Just know that every decision we make in this life is a choice between two evils. We should just be careful to choose the lesser evil.
If you two can reconcile, perhaps it would be a lesser evil compared to the evil of separation. I don’t know, only YOU can tell.
And if you two had to separate for good, well, good luck. Anyhow, none of those ‘puritants’ passing judgements on you is half as good as you. Make you no mind them jare. Na so them go just de blab, blab, blab.
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Oma Clara, You spoke well.I am in full support of ALL you said.
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My lov kate, quite sad wen i saw dat caption.rmemba no perfect man nor woman. Understand dat bible made us know dat not even infidelity can separate couple. Wateva d prblm, pls luv him as bible commanded every woman. My dear kate, divorce has negative effect esp. On children nd i know u won’t take dat. Cucculus non facit monarcum(hood does not make a monk)
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Aunty Kate pls in d name of God, reconcile wit ur hubby,there’s no beta man out there, no matter wat d issue is,cast all ur cares upon God, trust him nd i knw he wil neva fail u, cos he has neva failed. For d sake of ur children, families nd lovely fans, go back 2 ur matrimonia home plssssssssssssssssssss. I LOVE U but GOD LOvES U MosT
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Busy-bodies and poke-nosers. Were you witnesses when Kate got married? You think that ‘for better, for worse’ is acceptable in Oyibo land? If Mr Nuttal do not want the marriage any longer, will Kate go force herself on the man?
Kate, I love your level of responsibility and integrity. “Mutual separation, no contentions”. No noise making.
Wish you the best!!
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my dearest and most loved kate some pple say i smile like u, i love you so much and look up to you why allow urs end like dese stories i hear everyday, wateva it is can be resolved why divorce.
ur gud friend
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The level of shallowess being displayed on this tread is simply amazing.A couple quietly reaches a mutual consent to part and keep it so ,and people are weeping more than the bereaved.The under currents that precipitated that decision is thier privacy which they would like to keep,and people are here talking trash. please let them be.
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kate u are someone dat many people luk up 2 in d Nigerian movie industry,why u con fall my hand na???????????
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Kate, I admire you so much. I don’t think you have to leave your husband for whatever reason. Marriage is till death do you path.You have been together for so long, while the separation. There is no relationship without agreement and disagreement,please try to reconcile with your husband. Besides God hate divorce.
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Too bad, i and my wife respect you so much as one of the matured and respected career wife in nollywood industry , its better you make up with your husband, no marriage is perfect. am now thinking that its a curse for actors and actress to make up and break up.. i want you to break that yoke Kate.. God guide and protect you..
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All glory be to God all mighty ok.God should direct ur path in all ur ways in jesus name amen.
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Just be different from d rest
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what ever the atribute, it is most desireable to maintain, sustain a lasting relationship. marriage is not ment to go in and come out. this and many should be a lesson to the upcoming actress. i cant understand why majority ofactress and actors found difficult to maintain a long lasting relationship.
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is ds a curse in noolywood or somtin.cnnt u pple remain in ur maariage.wen i count i say u’ve lastd longa.but nw is d shortest of al .go bak 2ur husband n mek peace weda his wrong or right.do u com frm a brokn hum if not y do u wnt ur daughter to suffer it.is painful if u ask me if u luv ur daughter u wont
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kate it seems u are dreaming.don’t follow others becos d jealousy is too much.
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Kate please do not fall my hand, I really do not respect or see the most holy unmarried woman or divorced woman more than a prostitute, i even respect prostitute than a divoice woman, for your information, i love intelligence too much and that is the class you and omotola belong to when two of you do your things but it sees you particularly want to fall my hand. I can not take any reason because Bible did not aduced any qualified reason for divorce. START RIGHT AWAY, RE-POSITION YOURSELF AS A WOMAN TOWARDS IMMEDIATE RE-UNITING WITH YOUR HUSBAND and do it fast.
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This is what many don’t and will never know.
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Its sad to hear this is its not rumor.People just sit and sit and post silly comments sometimes. We don’t live with Kate and her British hubby with makes us a third party to the story. “judge not that u might not be judged”. Its not sometimes easy marrying white men for experience here in Europe, cos sometime they think with their ANUS and not BRAIN. Kate is a role model it is a know fact; but at the same time she should not be killed or kill out of provocation. Best for them to peacefully part. You don’t force LOVE When its not there u cant do anything. Lets wish her well. Cheers!
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idiot u think there is moe for u to get out there right, those boys and guys are out there to fuck ur ass and turn it up side down anyhow for u, dont worry u and monallissa , omotola and the rest of u idiots u are welcome back into the singular world of all sort od dirtiness, u have lost ur pride just get that straight.and ur ass will be bitten u cant escape that.
thank u very much.
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Kate pleas try and reconcile with your hubby cos i think what you have is what all other women are looking for…please don’t be carry out with your mind set just try and focus and i believe you are going to end you a winner
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pls Kate go and meet your husband there is nothing outside, they will just use and donmb u like a piss of rag
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These Nollywood actors and actresses should stop deceiving themselves with marriage. Come on! why can’t they marry and allow it be till death do them path? They should stop venturing into marriage since they know they can not keep it. This is sad.
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Atimes life throws some situations at you that you wont have a choice than just managing it so u have softlanding it might be marriage or health or employment issues…most responder here miscontrued the whole thing ..the caption was not ..Kate abandoned her husband or Kate jilt her husband… lik eit was written this is a clear case of mutual separation who know sif is the man that decided to put an end to the relationship and people here are advising her to go back ..what kate need is our prayers
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I and my wife admire you a lot kate,i am yet understand why most celebs dont stay in marriages.kate, you are one of the very few we see as being different-a lot of people has said this,yes you said the divorce was mutual-let me ask you one question,did you enter into the marriage in the first place only to divorce after 12 yrs? the way forward is the two of you to come together and settle whatever is the problem.
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My friend you better go back to your husband before it is too late…do you think getting married to another man is the best. know other man would love has your husband. Please go back to and what he has done to you kindly forgive..you marriage was instituted by God and not the devil, God dislike divorce.
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Why al dis bad news about nigeria actress either de divorce or de marry as second wife .is dis a screet court?
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Kate i wil adivice u to go back to dat man nd reconcile wt him.u look so cool wetin put u into dis temtation?
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Hello kate!
I disagree with your statement about beginning and end … I believe you know what is good for you and I will not be in a party of pushing back to your marriage.
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u r ok on d outside, but r u ok on d inside…hmmmmmm, kate?
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kate may be he is not ur God odained husband.
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hello kate,i really admire u and u r one of d married women i have alwais love 2 meet one on one,but wif wat has happened i rily go wif ur statement wich says wateva has a beginnin has an end…..i stil luv u al d same cos i bliv in u.
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Love either finds equality or makes it.
Love makes life so confusing sometimes but without love would you want to live?
Baba God does not support it.
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Kate,remember,God hates divorce except on the grounds of adultery!Why can’t you open your inner mind to see that even some of your colleagues envy you,why can’t you stand firm and make your marriage that which was made from heaven? Don’t be like the rest please,you’re admired by all and respected too. A word they say,is enough for the wise. I hope your husband is reading this,let him think twice before parting with a JEWEL.
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Sister Kate, you some body I admirer so much, I am shocked to hear this news of divorce but I hope you done every thing possible to make it work. May the Lord be your strength.
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woman u shuld b ashame of urself dat statement u made that woteva has a beginning will always have an end, im so sick of role models like u, infact i dont wish u a role model to my daughter cuz u r totally misleading, i mean wot else are u lookin for out there in the world??? All u pple jus keep turning books upside down, turning d world upside down, breaking up after 12years of marriage, get d hell out of my stage jo
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marriage were supose to be 4 beter 4 worst till dead so why divorsing i dont like de idea at all
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Lucky u sound frustrated! Stop hating on peeps with comfy lives…jeeez
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Kate dear, i beg you in the name of God. no going back in marriage. there is no place in the Bible that says you should Divorce your husband. yes in marriage their problems but how do you as a person manage to over come the problem. if for your child pls make up with your husband. at the alter of God you said till death do you part. for now neither you nor your husband can marry now till one dies. if not you will be committing adultry. pls think about this things.
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but marrige is 4evre institute why divorce..
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true talk Onyinye. I admire & praise u Kate as a person bcos u r unique & u make a big difference 2 actresshood in d film industry bt 4 dis 2 happen 2 u, & worse 2 have made such comment about marriage, i can’t just believe it. nobody is above mistake but a lot of pple like me have been taking a cue frm u & nw dis? so sorry. Sure, u hv ur life 2 live bt wat happens 2 d child(ren)u both have? is dat a contract 2?
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Sis Kate u just have to follow your heart
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Kate i love u so much, but your decision over your marriage does not portrait what one can emulate so, reconcile with your husband,thers’s nothing out there,pls i’m begging u.
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Hmmmm, dis is a very sorrowful event as we all need to seek the face of God in Nigeria. we r not to allow this white people religion come in contact with ours. It is well with our soul and Nation. As for Kate, she is an actress i really admired and still do admire, very Decent and Morally Upright. Only God knows what was the course of her break up with him. But Kate, i hope its worth it, if not i would suggest u go back to him..Marriage they say is for better for worse. Be blessed!!!
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i define compatibility as being able to UNDERSTAND & TOLERATE d negative & bad sides of the opposite sex’s or spouse’s behaviour, especially his/her unchangeable character as a person enough 2 LIVE a lifetime with such person. Dear Kate, pls think about dat. If u can tolerate ur siblings’ differences & disgusting habits & stil stay under d same roof, hw much more ur lifetime spouse.
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Kate,’an enemy has done this’,the devil is a liar; pls make it up with ur hubby, it is not in our culture. I see God helping you.
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Dear Kate,
Please we need to talk. Mail me on ruthy_lucky@yahoo.com
you can also reach me on 08023427225 divided home is not your dream my sister.
Thank you
Ruth.
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Kate, what on earth happened that make you leave your husband. You are one of the actress I respect so much at least, but no matter what happened, please I beg you in the Name of God, go back to your husband and settle the matter. What God has joined together, no man or woman should put asunder.
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It wont hurt to suspend the pride, hurts, dissappoints and pains and make try to make ammends. Be different! set the pace. I believe u can and i know God will help you if u let Him to.
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you broke up with your husband, i must say nobody will ever wish for that but God allowed it to happen for a purpose. Just like you always do in your movies, trust in Him for He will surely make manifest in your life. like i will always say: “if this marriage did not end like this, worst thing would have happened”. Roderick James was not really meant for you.
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oh my gus i cant believe this would ever happen after 12years, dats a lot; i wonder what went wrong that could not be resolved amicably. you said what has a beginning must have an end is that what marriage entails? pls go back to your bible and check. so many looked up to your marriage and hoped that theirs would be like yours. what a disappointment.
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Prostitute in higher places,this one of their example
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helo kate i always classify u as a virgous woman which u are but dnt let ur little problem remove dat frm u okay u are a real calibar woman which most pole call virgous woman jet lyk my mum so dnt allow dis attribute found in u to go jet lyk dat
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I must say that i am most disappointed but to a great extent i dint expect more. Kate is one d few nollywood actresses i admire but some how she has cleared d doubts d@ marriages last in their fields cos it is obvious it does not. Well, after so much talks you know what is best for you and in my opinion you r a public figure pls dnt let your fans down, so many people look up to you out there.
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you dont have to blame them, most men are not faithfull to their wife and all what they think is that actress do sleep with producer before they can get a role in a film, they all have it at back of their mind but they want to marry a celebrity they hide their belief and go ahead with the wedding thinking that after the wedding they will ask the lady to stop acting meanwhile some of the actress cant do without acting, or when last did you see kate face on any of the home video its been long please lets face the reality and tell our men to be serious and love their wife no matter what
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please aunty kate, i beg u in the name of God whatever the reason may be pls, go back to your husband. i want you too know that God hate divorce, you that you have been enduring for the past 12yrs why now, remember the bible say weeping may last for a night but joy comes in the morning. i pray that God in His infinity mercy will give you more wisdom and understand in your marriage. Remain bless
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your choice and your decision, All that glitters is not Gold. Think twice
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one truth/fact i’v come 2 terms with in this life is dat we women r ALWAYS @ d RECEIVING END of EVERYTHING we & d opposite sex do, just in order 4 peace 2 reign, but wat we stil don’t seem 2 come 2 terms with is dat peace is wat gives us an upper hand on d opposite sex, without them knowing it. Pls Kate, think about this.
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Kate pls go bac 2 ur husband if 4 nthn else 4 d sake of ur daughter,even if d luv ve gone sour u can stil mak it euer better dan b4.
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Kate pls go bac 2 ur husband if 4 nthn else 4 d sake of ur daughter,even if d luv ve gone sour u can stil mak it better ever dan b4.
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Kate pls go bac 2 ur husband if 4 nthn else 4 d sake of ur daughter,even if d luv ve gone sour u can stil mak it better ever dan b4.may GOD help u as u do dat.
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….kate, you re an african you should not pratice the lifestyle of the white of divorce.please perphap God condem Divorce. He is not Happy to see couple joined been divorced because of one reason or the other..please go back to ya Husband atleast for the seek of ur kids…or what legacy are u laying for them.tink about it&wish a hapi decision .
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Well all l can say is that,its not surprising about the divorce. Nowadays anything goes,”love is dead” after all.
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Kate u are woman i have always held on a very high esteem. I know something must have gone wrong but for the purpose itegruty in the industry, divorce should’t have been part of your biography. i know that what has a beginning has ann end but i didnt know marriage was included. please redeem ur image in the eyes of ur fans amongs whom i belong.
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so u think this is the best u want for ur children, do u know what u want to put dm thru. pls pray and let God guide u. i lov u and i want d best for u. it is well
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U are one of the few here that has been thoughtful enuf to say the right thing. Like the saying goes “he who wears the shoes knows where it hurts most”. White ppl are very impatient and are always searching for a difference that isnt in existence in this world. And l hear many ppl here saying go back,go back when they dont even know what happened or what Kate has been putting up with all these years.
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wat ebiti risikat said could be true & if dat’s part of d “mutual agreement” kate was talking abt, then u both have poked God in d eyes by defiling dis lifetime institution. i hope not! kate, even if it’s infidelity, yes, frm either of u, pls, 2 ere is very human, bt 2 forgive is eternally divine. Let God open d eye of ur heart.
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hello my der sister,GOD is ur strenght.My advece to you is to go back to ur husband,think about ur baby and his or her future.THANKS
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I think you are wrong Kate. God ordained marriage to last for ever. Only death should separate you. Somebody commented that she was so happy for you at the early time of your marriage. Where is the love again? Could it be that you didn’t look before you leap? Did you marry him because you wanted to be listed among Nigerian actresses who are married to white men? Whatever your mutual agreement is, you two must make amend ’cause God will see both of you as adulterers if you get married to another person. Reconciliation is the right step.
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well, It sad to hear this. Hmmnn! I wish couple realised that marriage is a relationship and an institution set up by God. May God help us all, Amen!
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Kate …. You were a role model to my little daughter. Why now. Pls tell me what to tell her
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Every thing that has a begining has an end with exception of marrige. As for marrige, it is only death that can bring an end. Therefore, whatever happened to our dear sister is very sad. Please both should open up again possibly to overcome all irreconciliables. Marriage is a commitment and even if 30 or more years there are bound to be some challenges which pure love can assist to overcome. I feel for the kids who were used to parents sitting together now one at a time. Please rethink and come back again.THIS IS WHAT YOUR FANS LIKE ME WANT.
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Jesus is the strong foundation where by the righteous runs into it and is saved. all said and done, we must look at the foundation of that marriage;if it was built on a solid rock or sandy foundation. the Bible says that no other foundation shall man lay but that which is laid by Chridt Jesus. this requires that every relationship or business must be laid on Chris Jesus else, it will collaps because, the tempter will definitely come to steal, kill or destroy the foundation but, when it is laid on Jesus, it is sure; it will not collaps because Jesus is the firm foundation, he is always in control. The bible said if the foundation of the righteous is destroyed, what can the righteous do? in this case, my sister can only remember that marriage is divine, if it was not laid on Christ Jesus, she can only repay it by asking Jesus to come into her life and make it sweeter where it was sweet for only 12yrs. and to all her fans, we should show love and quallity care by praying that God will show her mercy and restore her joy. The joy os the Lord is her strenght.
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My dear Kate i knw dat evry thing dat as a beginin mst av amn end bt if u dnt wnt to deceive urself remember it wz 4 beta 4 worse nd till death du us part dat u sed on dat dae….
Dnt b deceived marraige does nt end dat way…..u av no logical reason…if u claim to b a christian i thnk u shuld concenterate mor on ur bible rather jumpin 4rm set to set.. du u reali thnk God Wuld accept ur weak reasons for divorce?
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kate u r d 1 i admire so much,den hw come dis divorce of a thing,u r d number1 list person dat i thought of dat can’t be a divorcee.i pray dat 1 day u guys will settle d whole issues.kate u r d best,so keep moven 4ward
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please i beg of u don’t do this,like the saying that says tough time never last but tough people do,there is someone above that is seeing everything.i don’t know ur reason but consider people that will go down because of ur decision.u are one of the best actor i admire so much.seek God, don’t act on ur own family life kate.love u so much
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all I can say is that everything that has a beginning, must have an end. As you can see, i am okay. there’s no rancour, no problem.” these are your words. we only pray for a problem to end not marriage. where did you put the common and most well said ” FOR BETTER FOR WORST”. i will advice you to settle with you husband. i pray that God will give you the grace and understanding to do that. look for that thing you first saw in him, i am sure that is still present in there. best of luck
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Don’t seem to understand these Nigerian actresses. They disappoint their fans. It is highly disappointing to experience this from Kate of all people! If she thinks she has arrived and cannot be under the control of a man, she’s making a grievous mistake! What does she think of their children? Infact, I will stop cherishing these actresses.
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Kate pls go back 2 ur husband,he needs u the children needs u too.I no 4 sure God has a good plain 4 ur life.
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Kate: marriage is not what u can just wake up on morning and enter like a house before doing it u must be sure of what u are doing and study the man u want to marry so y leaving this man again and am sure u going 4 another man and u know that guys are the same if u say u leave him the other one u are going to marry did u know what he can do please be careful. God bless u and he will give u a good husband
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Kate please just go back to your spouse. It bcos what goes arround surely comes arround and a dream of today is a reality of 2morrow, pls dont let d divorce grow up. Go back.
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I join millions of ur fans in appealling 2 u 2 reconcile wi ur husband.
This is certainly not gd 4 an amiable personality of ur type who has won alot of respect 4fm ur fans, i can say all over the world.
The nation has had enough of divorce cases not to talk of millions of unmarried girls praying God , day and night, to get a man for marriage.
I learn u have a child 4 ur 4ma husband, think of the psychologicl effect ur separation will have on him or her.U know nothing can be as precious as a child and any sacrifice made on their behalf is worth it.
A word is enough for the wise, my sister.
Ahmed, Abuja
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Kate i want de best for u not Divoce plsss.You better do something now b4 is too late.
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Have u tried God in your effort to save your marriage? If not, do. He can never fail you!
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anything GOD does is forever… if it fails it’s our fault. kate many sees u as a nice person including me, am really proud this has happened but i pray u both r reconciled as man and wife in JESUS name bcos GOD hate divorce. GOD b wit u and give u grace to make amends
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sweet honey kate,u ar my love and i love u wit passion. may i inform u that divorce is a direct attack on God almighty and His purposes for mankind. may i also inform u that God said that it is batter that u were not born and that it were better to tie a big rock in ur neck and have u thrown into the sea than that u cos the faith of any of the children of God to stumble in theire faith. sweet heart why shoul u shipreck and disappoint the faith of millions of nigerians who love u and copy u as theire role model.u ar telling them to disregard God who said that He hates divorce.honey please come back to ur marriage and God will do d rest.i can help u.
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Why can’t all these so called A list actresses remain in their marriages? I read your article on the entertainment express last month or so and believed you are of better to others of your colleagues only for me to realize that you all are of the same feather.
This story disgust me. You all are just trying to imitate the whites. NONSENSE.
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Kate, you’re always loved and celebrated by all, due to your amicable and compatible manners. I said this because i happen to be ur tribe. Mark me right cos u know very well that women of our tribe are always respected because of their obedience to their husband and to God. My dear, you were in a legal constitution built and created by God so if you’re taken this unnecessary step they is nothing to cover up you have disobey God already. A question comes, man and God who do you thing we should obey?.
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Blessing one needs to fear u…..U can imagine d kind of mindset a lady has built her life on….It suggest dat u jump from one man to another.May God help!
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work it out, live 4 the future . love is not enough perseverance and persistence are the greatest tool for marriage and a success life . so go back i think that’s wht God will tell you to do we love you
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Katty! Katty!! Kate!!! I used to think i alone luv u so much but reading people’s response i just weep realizing am not alone.I see u as a decent lady n admire u so much, but this story of ur divorce is killing me. God hates putting away (divorce) remember. So 4 ursef, ur kids n us, put ur marriage in order. I know u can do it. u have d strength n God ll help u if u let Him. I luv u, we al luv u plenty but God luvs u plentymuch
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Katty this is an heartbreak to ur fans i really singled you out from the others,whether mutual or not contentious a divorce is a divorce regardless of the title u call it a celebrity is always a celebrity always on the news i have ceased to gbado ur style.
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What really went wrong, as a good actress i thought you would bring what you showed on tv to real. Wedding is a days affair but marriage ie a life long affair. Think about it
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U see, wht thy do is busy acting another persons life character,who could ve believed this 15yrs of marriage sink just lik that.if u had gone thru ur marriage course u should ve none wht marriage is all about.practise wht u preach
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sokari oweredaba Reply:
November 18th, 2011 at 3:03 am
kate i must honestly say you need to read this.you should know the rules according to the Holy bible as a CHRISTIAN of marriage that when you say I DO there is no turning back and if you turn back as long as your husband is living you have no authority as a CHRISTIAN to REMARRY until his death if you do honestly you are negotiating with everlasting purnishment(HELL FIRE).
you honestly know how you have lived with your husband sincerely though as an actress i know it will no be easy with him.you and him coming together for the sake of the word of GOD is 100% MANDATORY please keep your status aside,forget about white or black,geographical location and his general behaviour all these you were suppose to put into consideration before you say i do and rebuild your marriage so that the tricks the DEVIL is trying to use for your eternal destruction will be destroyed by you.I pray that the spirit of GOD will see you both to come together again God bless you.I would not mind to hear from you.REMEMBER THERE IS A WAY THAT SEEM RIGHT UNTO A MAN/WOMAN BOTH THE END IS DESTRUCTION DEVOICE IS NOT RIGHT IT MAY LEAD TO DESTRUCTION.MARRY IS A LIVE CONTRACT NO TURNING BACK.
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My very dear Kate. I know you both must have considered things that we may not be privileged to know about. I wish you both the very best and God’s wisdom in dealing with the situation. There may be room for a come-back if you manage the situation very well, especially in the interest of your children.
Take care my dear one. You are greatly admired by Nigerians.
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Kate Henshew, from the bottom of my heart, u were one of those few female actress I admire, but now with what u have done, u have broken my heart and force me to hate u, yes I hate u.Go back and make strait where u have fallen.
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Mixed marriages,always have its flaws! After all the Bible says that we should not mix our seeds. There is always a silver linning in every broken marriage. I wish Kate all the best in life.
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Kate, do try to work things out with your husband. You are an icon to so many. However, if its glaring that things can’t work out between you two, then I wish you the best in life. Be happy.
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Sorry to say, we of this generation seem possessed in the area of marriage. We bliv so much on wat we know and lack real wisdom, knowledge and understanding for wat we lean on is our own understanding. We are carried away by wat we want not minding wat God wants, patience is not in our dictionary. There is nothing honorable in a broken marriage, there is nothin mutual in break ups, there is nothin like seperaring amicably in a marriage, i stand to be corrected though. Henshaw, u probably made a wrong decision.
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…of a truth i don’t support divorce.. h h and the scripture frown at it too. … but there are some circumstance that might make it seem acceptable. But be that as it may Kate has been a decent young lady, thereare just few like her in the industry today… it’s my prayer that she finds true Joy and fulfillment even as God redirects her course….Amen.
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Kate. it looks like you have chosen to go to hell like Michael Jackson. Your acting career means nothing to Jesus. You are still a die hard sinner. I am sure you are doing this to have a freedom to act nuke and earner fast bucks. U know according to the Word of God u can’t marry any man unexcept your husband is death. If u perfer to remarry again this means you have seal your fate with hell burning brimstone and fire. Remember you are only pleasing the world with your acting techniques and NOT Jesus. U better go back reconcile with your husband. Anyone that surpport your your divorce is enemy in disguise. Quote me You will regret it hell. Remember Princess Diana is in Hell.
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Pls Big Sister, go back to ur husband, marriage is for beta for worse. Do not be like others.
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hello dear sis kate though we dnt really knw wot happened btw u two but no mata wot u cn still get along pls do dis 4 d sake of ur children,okie sis pls dnt listen to does given bad advice or wotsoeva.i love u sis.
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AND GOD SAID—I HATE DIVORCE. SO CALLED CELEBRITIES NEED TO BE VERY CAREFUL. TAKE EXAMPLE FROM STELLA DAMASUS. SHE HAS EVERYTHING TO BE ALONE YET SHE REMARRIED AFTER THE DEATH OF THE HUSBAND. THE ONLY THING THAT IS PERMANENT IS —CHANGE.
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Kate you ar one of the nollywood actresses dat ar well mannered, well behaved, decent, and respectful, i admire and envy you alot, u were my role model now you have disappointed me!!!! wots the cause of the divorce that you cant handle and settle your home peacefully,
you ar now among the classified nollywood actresses that divorce their husband
tooooooooooo bad!!
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Kate, i have always admired u and i think as a mother, u owe it to your children to grow under the care n luv of both parents
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it seems that all these celebs can’t keep their heads cool and down. it is the biggest folly for you to say everything that has a beginning must have an end. you could as well put a knife to your children’s throat and say that everything that has a beginning must have an end. you no longer are my role model.never will be, you can keep your beauty but you can’t keep your marriage.you can produce a good movie but you can produce a good family. you can make up your face but you can’t make up your marriage.you can invest in your acting career but you can invest in your home. what a blatant shame!I hereby dis-mentor you in the name of the father, son and the HolyGhost….
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the press kills the celebrities, worst things happens in many homes even in their own domain.just bcos you are CELEB…. Dear Kate Henshaw, pls always see GOD and allow HIM to lead and guide you. HE knows best, even before it happens, but ppl always blame women, even when whatever happens caused the woman her health and life, she will still be blamed.. PLEASE DEARIE, have your focus in GOD OF HEAVEN. HE knows what is good, right and best at HIS OWN TIME.. KEEP UR FAITH and allow HIM direct you. love you lol…
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Kate, people have commented extensively on this issue though some witless but i hope u read and listen to all our pleas. my dear u re realy a role model to many and i believe this is a text u must overcome. i know marriage is not a bed of roses and who knows what u have been going thru for the past 12 yrs. i tell u, it can be fustrating sometimes, but u dont let that pull u down. its only those whose own are in public that people tend to talk about.
I PRAY GOD TO GIVE U THE MIND TO RESOLVE THIS AMICABLY WT UR DARLING HUSBAND.
REMAIN BLESSED.
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Kate, u are one of the few artist that i admire. iI believe there’s a/are better way(s) to resolve marrital issue than resulting in seperation or divorce.
Am really surprise and disapointed that u too hv join this club. Nollyhood actresses dont end well in their marriages, why? Is there a spirit behind this? The rate of divorce is too high in nollyhood and show biz generally.
God will help u all to see marriage beyond the temporary and begin to see it like a life time. one love!!!!!
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I only hope, there’s no other guy out there distracting you!! My dear, you alone know the real reason why you are opting out but, remember, you are a child of God and a music minister, what message are you putting forth? Think about all that and do the right thing. Or, is he the one opting out? If yes, then, there’s little you can do, but just remember you have to keep your head high for God and your numerous fans. I don’t want any more negative stories about you. I’m your fan and really really like you. keep up the beautiful smile. Stay blessed!!!
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well Kate, its a matter of choice you have lived with him for 12 years and if the compatibility is no longer there i cant force you to be in a marriage where you are not happy but have it in mind that marriage is not about starting and ending its all about a lifetime thing it only take patience and understanding to live till death do us path.
Anyway i wish you best of luck.
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am so disappointed to hear a lady i have admired 4 many years talk the way u did.i suppose u should have known better.how can u publicly say “anything that have a beginning must have an end”.is marriage included?kate as a role motel to many youth, what are u suggesting to them? that they can go in to marriage and come out when they want?kate!!!!!!!!! whAT about the principle of commitment? see my dear,i advise u and u man to accept responsibility for ur failures so that u can find healing for ur sick marriage and stop deceiving us we are not kids.moreover ,think about the people that will be affected as a result this decision you made.Don’t just think about yourselves and not thinking of the effect on ur children,family and friends.ONLY SELF FISH PEOPLE GO FOR DIVORCE
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oh kate why this break up.u are one of person i really respect and admire.God will turn things around 4 u
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kate i really like u as person and regard 4 u. i fill bad as a woman. Anyway wht ever as a begin most as an end. God will turn thins gud 4 u.
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na so d beef dey do you. u aint in her shoes so you dont have a right to condemn her.
be a role model to your daughter instead of leaving that to others.
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So sori der god is ur strength jus go on wif ur life dnt let it weair u down.
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ONYEM KATE U CAN SEE THAT POEPLE REALLY CARE ABOUT YOU BUT I LOVE U SO MUCH. ABEG, NO FALL MY HAND JUST GO BACK TO YOUR HUBBY WHATEVRE IT IS LET GOD TAKE CONTROL AND ALLWAY BE PRAYERFUL MY DEAR. JUST WAITING TO HEAR THAT SOON
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My dear Kate, pls don’t do this ok? if we do things ourselfs, we will not it right without the wisdom and direction of God Almighty. so my dear, while u take your decisions, ask God for his WISDOM & DIRECTION cheers.
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I cant blame those who are asking Kate to marry them I think it is better to marry and lost than not to marry her at all .Since i watched her
in ‘PALACE’,i have not stopped admiring her even though i have not seen her in my life except in movies and on the pages of newspapers
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U people shouldn’t blame Kate it never her fault is the work of the Devil……
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kate, as much as i admire u, i don’t expect this is coming 4rm u, particularly a famous star like u. What on earth could it have been, that u have to let a marriage of Twelve years crash just like that. My dear God is against divorce so please try and work on this issue.
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Kate, im one of ur fans with high level of respect, pls. if it possible to settle with ur husband. i will so much love it. ive gone a long way with him, pls go back.
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too bad… our ladies learn
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Beloved Kate, I had alwabelieved in u as a child of GOD n respected u 4 dat but how come u threw away ur dignity as a virteous woman 4getin GOD’s principles concernin marriage. Pls its not late 2 retrace ur steps n GOD wil restore ur home n marriage. GOD’ blessins.
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my dear people, please dont put blame on d gentle soul, he who d shoes, no wear it picches. the truth is dat we should all learn to endure in marriage, but deir r some circumstances dat drices one out. it is a matter of tym for everybody to understand wat marriage is all bout. if u dont av anytin to say, kip ur hands hand, instead of insulting her. kate u r a great woman, some of dem dont even spend 1 yr in marriage and dey r complaining bout urs, no matter wat d case mayb, pls, settle up with him, if it is beyond settlement, pls, kindly go ur way. if u tink u can chaalenge me, call me, i will fight for her. +2347039002446 NIGERIA
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that’s rubbish!!!!
marriage is not like starting a movie and ending it at your own will, its meant to be life-long thing.
I’m just disappointed cos i see u as a model but now definitely, no child shld see u as one.
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Kate u are my roll model and respect u so much but this aspect of your separation or divorce doesn’t sound good please Kate try and sort out what ever issue it is between u and u husband before too late, and don’t forget that many Nigerians are looking up to you, so don’t give your enemies the chance to mock you pleeeeaaassseee
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kate,
Please what of your children?
If you are not with them please go for them so that you will not regret this silly mistake.don’t leave your children in the hand of another woman because if they suffer tomorrow God will not forgive you.
Have the heart of a mother.
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it is a normal thing. its just working out and she quit. life continues.
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All this actress dey marry yankee n britico for money, divorce money. What do you think, better than any other money hahaha. women sha, “everything that as a begining must have an end” i think that was the oat she swore when she said “Till death do us part” BARA OOOO
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Prayer is the key my dear. Always in my thoughts and prayers. Take care
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Kate pls i beg u in Name of God to go back and reconcile with him, honestly u dn,t deserve that, i use to cunt u as number One in the Movie indu. when it comes to Decency, God fearing, and responsible. So go back to ur husband oooo………. After all no bi u go fall in love wit Onyibo Man.
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dumbest thing to say in a marriage ordained by God…especially when u guys are alive…….”everyhing that has a beginning has an end”…….maybe she married in the sight of satan…..modern women who cant stay in their first marriage won’t even last in the second talk less of a third………. it’s a man’s world afterall….. I leave that to God
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Greetings to all gentlemen and ladies,Enough of these:ladies and gentlemen,(e don enter their head so much)Maybe that’s why there are lots of troubles,obstacles,hindrances,abuses,call it names and etc in marriages these days,especially in the celebrity world.I wanna ask this very particular question because i am yet to see among all the Actresses,Models & beauty contestants of the world,miss world,miss malaika,miss universe,miss university,miss polytechnik,miss college of educations and miss so so so and that!! who are in a man’s house maritally sound and well,Tell me!!!!! I want my people of Afrika to know that we are Afrikans,Enough of all these borrowed culture,let us be bold and proud of our own culture and leave Oyibo with their’s, Even in borrowing that Oyibo culture,we abuse it a lot,e.g. See Boko Haram and killings of his own people,what for??? HAHAHAHAHAHUHUHUHEHEHE FOR BLACK AFRIKANSSSSSSSSSS
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tanks, u understand
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kate never expected you to be out of marriage at this point in your life, there is nothing like mutual agreement in divorce you promised mr. Nuttal you were gonna love him for richer for poorer, in sickness in health till death do you part. so one simple question that i wanna ask is why did you leave him now.
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Exactly Oyinye, marriage has a beginning but it does not have an end except till death do u part.Kate u have always been my role model and u will always be.Pls be matured enough and apologizes to your hubby.
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kate, i thot u will be d one to win that award of a celeb in marriage, i can see dat others ve infected u too but, i believe u can still work things out with ur hubby.U are one decent celeb. wish u luck
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i think marriage is suppose to0 be a life contract( 4beta 4 worse)
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Kate, how come. Please go back because going back is the best thing that can happpen to you. There is nothing outside. I admire u, children cherish u, Nigerians love u, therefore dnt disappoint us. You are one of the few in that industry that people respect. Please dont listen to foolish advice log on the mail and see what the world is saying to u. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE GO BACK. WE LOVE U DEARLY
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All that happened was for good, i want you to hold still to God, He will surely make manifest in your life and find a better replacement for you.
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why end a marriage as old as 12yrs? if u were going to end it at 12yrs why going into it in the first place? if not for anytin, at least for the child sake a broken home is not the best for a growing child, pls have a rethink. my dear wat ever u think u can’t take now then u can never take it even if u remarried.
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i disagree with you,marriage should not have an ending,but if that is your idea of life,so be it. So who is taking the products of the marriage(the kids)?
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When Kate got married nobody ask her why? when she chose him to be her husband nobody ask why? and now she want divorce people are asking questions. Why is that it is always the woman’s fault when marriages don’t work out? please people stop judging her, just pray for God to show her the right way of handling this issue.
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R&Y Reply:
November 25th, 2011 at 2:34 pm
Unbelievable, it cannot be Kate pls go back 2 ur hubby to d shame of ur mockers in case u didn’t know they exist, there is no “have begining, have end” in marraige when u and ur hubby are still alive.
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i tot marriage is supose 2 be till death do u part?or was dat not what u both said on ur wedding day?nd if yes,whats happening?pls dnt give devil a chance
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Kate, has gotten what you wanted from the poor white man. Kate had a plan and now she’s succeeded… Money and women na wa ooooo
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I don’t really understand wat all dis pple are saying, is it all marriage ordained by God? Is marriage a suicide mission? Kate is d one dat say I DO voluntrily, and she also came out to say I DONT. so why d headache.
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hey i tot u were the best nigerian celebrity,c’mon people
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12 years in marriage is not a childs’ play so pls KATE i beg u in name of God and for the vow u took on your wedding day. respect marriage and the norms don’t be like white women who do not respect the institution of marriage. make peace and put your home in order.
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We all have choice, role modeling or otherwise. But how do we place this act, for God or for satan? There certainly be God’s judgment. Let’s all rest the case!!!
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